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1, female 26, male little half a year, met for 15 years, childhood, two years ago to determine relationships, women crush men for many years. At first, only male female confidante, met four years after the man and his girlfriend After the Fall in love with women, two different places, men are concerned about the beginning of women, SMS phone greetings, holiday running between two. Six months ago, said men and women as friends, women did not care, female Taitailielie, do not know the details, but the women on Male sincerely. Men always wanted to go to his women, women working in Beijing, the development of stable and good jobs with decent income, it has not committed to the men of the city. men in a provincial capital, income is more than 2 times the local per capita income. New Year not with the feelings of men said they were very light and the female sexual independence, men do not feel themselves to be needed. other men and that women careless, not a woman, then mention breaking up.
to men and women that work in the cities Male said it was too late. women stay, fit men, men see a woman upset with the woman that first cool period. as long as women think that love is true, ignoring the details, by the wish to get rid of this bullet wrong with sloppy feelings However, feelings of fear has returned to the past. male parents are like women, strongly match, but the idea of men and women care about, listened to the words of many men and wounding a little disheartened, but also can not let go, women are changing the nature of the continuing maintain this relationship, or had to spare? male pet for young girls to be large, for the feelings of lack of initiative, and occasionally take the women and intercourse more than four years of ex-girlfriend. girl who hated it. hope to give some advice along sister. < br> not to say that all the men to abandon the cause of the woman, must ultimately be abandoned wives, or black-Yuan Fu Huang Lian, but most women really bad luck, that defected to the love, love has failed them; that give all necessary of gratitude to a man, the man finally said, , even if the catch, and the cost of your income and stable development of your work, all gone, the future is not clear how far you can go. to give up their career prospects, it is worth it or not, you weigh.
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2, because the right side of the temple block a coin that has a large black birthmark, so I have been relatively low self-esteem, especially in front of my boys did not say much more. Now I'm 20 years old, never truly love someone me. can some people say like I want to contact me, I am not sure those words are true, but honestly, those words made me very happy. I wanted to get married. from high school I lived alone, and seldom go out I do not like to go out alone. feel now as if he were a little closed, a few good friends in front of me is very cheerful, if not only talk and meet someone calls, the person that I am very outgoing and very sensible, can be I ran into a stranger within, and did not speak. I'm not like those friends, will play out, I want to play do not know what to play, how I do not like to go to places of entertainment. often read your blog, looking for You talk about truth. I want to change myself, but I have not the courage to do it.
First, good work, good save, so you have a chance to pack away as soon as possible to the piece of plastic surgery hospital birthmark; second, To adjust the attitude, optimistic accessible, and actively interacting with people, so that it can so that more men have the opportunity to appreciate you; Third, do not consider getting married before the age of 20, and then all alone can not just give yourself to find a bound, a great marriage extent, is bundled with each other, they must be mature, think it over, sights, before considering marriage. Fourth, with determination, to change from now on, do not look very great changes in Hope, we a little bit ahead to expand, update, and accumulated much on others for you to have a new all.
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3, send email to you is not good, but to talk here, I hear you , then stop, kick the garbage men. the cost of Benton suffered a heart beat is another sad and easily, and perhaps this is a price the dignity of the tear. give me a word, the wide my heart, love you.
baby, thanks to a kick him, otherwise he will not keep your original capital loss to say the least, they might beat you he will do every day, meal-for-N Dayton, called flesh clearance, it is worth. after the open eyes eyes open to find a man, full of good ears and listen, we must be vigilant.
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4, my husband is very poor family conditions, general conditions of my family, but my parents care about me, so check with helping us to eat less buy a wedding room, is still to help us save money, and that left us in the future by raising children. to her husband at home that can offer us, but also the money we give her in-laws! yesterday again call for money! I really psychological imbalance, but also said parents should not be so hard for me to save money, but they did not listen, saying that to me a daughter, who does not give me too! to see my parents, and then look at his home, and I highly unbalanced it! I often think about this issue, I will, and her husband lost his temper, I know this is not good for our feelings, but I'm losing control! I am very contradictory!
before marriage do not you know his family poor? you find is a poor hole, and now have to keep subsidizing his home, it is normal. your parents feel bad you are, and live frugally to subsidize you, Oh, are family, the difference is that a family is constantly giving A family is constantly on request. you think your parents make you have the ability to remedy his family, and is equal to you her parents stuck by his maiden; your own suffering does not matter, you can not see the parents suffer with you, so you unbalanced. but the balance man who can only find you, if this fight always, is clearly not a balanced approach, not as noisy, so I really can not figure out on his AA, he has money to help his family, his money does not matter to you and also .
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5, and her boyfriend get along with two and a half, during which the occasional little quarrel, the general good feelings. Recently I always uncomfortable: He has a brother, three years his junior, got married last year. had last year, we plan to get married But he first mentioned brother, younger brother of his mother let him first Jie, we do not want to do together, pushed to the present. This year is my year, which said that marriage would be bad luck, I've always wanted Ox birth to a calf, he knew but this very body center, a few days ago I complained, he said, and then immediately get married first pregnancy still have time, I do not want to. He always told me the money calculation. A year ago his mother gave him a down payment to buy thirty vehicles, both of us to pay the mortgage, which I did out of the money has eight thousand thousand, is now his mother left him to pay off the loan once the condition that the marriage simply do, you could save on the province.
I was very happy, after all, is his car, why do married to Jane, and once a broken heart, I put the money boondoggle. Now the money to pay off car, where he used the money very much, always trying to Let me give him money, I said no money he can say not married)
you to help him that part of the loan money and lose it, just do not keep him for money, but also stop to give him money, he and his mother are the two heads at one carry, and you do not But they calculated to account for them can never expect cheaper, or let them care for you. As for marriage, walk and see, not married to such a bad mood, you have enough Xuan Hu's marriage.
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6, M 26 college, undergraduate reading. home in rural areas, the general appearance than Aishou, are difficult to find the object of a class, want to marry and have children as soon as possible. are income 4K, hurried home to find objects. phase had several relatives, did not become. Internet knowledge a daughter, now working in Shanghai, more ugly, but frankly, big men and two years. women before the two-term boyfriend, have been living together, the recent work of a boyfriend in the bar, play online games, do not make progress, women spend a lot of money, abandoned her. M a bit concerned about the woman's past, in fact, the man who is not a prude, not for her virginity, but the thought always have something to do after intercourse to face, such as premarital difficult to open. The girl was her boyfriend had contacts, no money for buying the former boyfriend New Year back home and asked her to, she gave. Will Soon sister, so girls can exchange it? what you think online love?
this girl very good one, good give compassion, to give ex-boyfriend broke up a fare, a cis to do it. You say she does not look good, you generally do not like you have? old saying You and she can together, we can consider her. As for online dating, a cis interaction that this is a way, but that online and offline than the love, to be more unpredictable, the situation requires in-depth understanding of each other after , can continue.
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7, with her boyfriend classmates, all 25, and my family do not agree, because her boyfriend's appearance and height are not Jiaoren satisfaction. boyfriend message to talk with my father, no My dad just thought of a back, so my boyfriend not to act rashly, not to mention he is my boyfriend is my only students, but also nothing to talk about. to ignore people, really depressed, and we have to fight, do not know When is the result. also forced boyfriend came home, just upgraded my face test, hey. You would certainly say, looks can not eat, can the gap between reality and ideal is so great.
we will not say can not eat Smart money Trinidad and Tobago, your father will do so down on him?
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8, I remarried, he children in the professional soccer team, I am not around children, and we had two years of two of the world, it is Well, he can be in August 2008 children back, say that football is too dark, do not want to continue, and then stay at home, eat and sleep every day online, nothing will do, I wash socks and underwear all, but also special picky eaters. These are the details of life, and I put up, can not tolerate the attitude of his outlook on life and living. He spend money like water, never to come I do not know where the money is spent on to her husband to finish. These are will be most difficult to learn to endure the drama of his br> do not give to be unhappy at home and toss is not finished, he was spending money I do not feel bad, but hurt his throwing money, his childhood spent in a closed school football, and now there is no real social experience, he left to do their own independent far short of what the business. I wanted him to find a place to work, adapt to the society, but he strongly disagreed that money and do business. I was completely unable to, and her husband do not want to make things difficult for his son, I do not What to say, knowing that the tiger will walk in, ah, no way to do. these children so I have a headache, the investment failure and the next investment, I and my husband not well-off, who knows when is the head?
Now you and your husband need to talk about: the children so much, you can help him, but if help is not the place to be 竹篮打水一场空 obvious, the future bride of his complete waste of money, then not have to fall He complained that it? Therefore, we must tell him to clear his son said: at home can only help him once, I hope to see the cause of his re-direction of investment, so as not to make unnecessary sacrifices, the hard-earned money are thrown at home. He is also a big man, should be for the home, rather than increase the burden of relief. If he can not understand your attitude Yeliang, you have to do to prepare, with your men to their property under the notary, he was his son to avoid in the future to do a bankruptcy, you has also been dragged down.
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9, I divorced years ago. marriageable age 5 months. I mentioned, because the former can not stand the PP (snobbish, figuring I did not get married to the income of the poor house. also called curse my mother) she'd tried to maintain the child during the marriage (as was also because of his mother, leading to love his woman left him. This is what I learned later, had known I would not, and he brought card), but I think the future well-being, as early as possible the break.
my situation: the work of 28 state-owned enterprises, the general appearance, eye small, only the basic concepts of money, have the ability to feed themselves. and the men slept a few times , not living together, not pregnant. In addition to unit people know that I have got married, other people, including friends, did not know I married. Divorce is a unit of people do not know, I made up the aftermath. I now intend to live good, do a good job, and then upgrade themselves. the love love, after a suitable candidate, the marriage of marriage, will not go to divorce, male or will 4.50 left male, rush along, and remarried. but now the men are all mind woman's past? later met the right to open and he definitely said this, how to grasp the degree?
marital history could not be hidden, so people have the right look, as long as the other displays of affection, you take the initiative to tell This section of his past. He genuinely rare you will be able to accept your history. He had on your attitude, if that is optional, of course, so leave you. However, we only we silly nostalgia and regret on the people, so the price even if it is honest and leave the other side, they should tell the truth. Even if you do not look after the old man of 50 up and down, you almost can find age of divorced men do, only 28, or a lavish option of age , points to a positive, confident point.
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10, married for three years, the husband and I are the same age, primary school education. He only child, his family is very pet him, and his family gifted; my college, the oldest, and family in general . in recent months that he was having an affair, more than one. He said not really like it, is that I do not have that in their tenderness. talked about four times, asking them to cut off contact, he said they would use their own means. At present, the quiet less than a month, my pain and anger is often difficult to hide. I wonder if I stick this marriage worth it. He is a very playful person, a lot of cleverness, is a male chauvinist, most important, to the current and I also have not mentioned until the birth of a child's wishes. All these have made me feel insecure. Please give me advice about my marriage in the end this should not continue? how can I do?
you are looking on his home, only to marry him? you his undergraduate school, how could you have a common language? it when no common language, temper can get along to make do go, but he was a playboy, James took the old thinking about hh provoke grass so you want to have children with him, want him long-term stability? I can only suspect that his family could not have money to make you pull the eye out. how to take your marriage, mainly to see what you need, if the care about the money you insist, then he fucks it endured.
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11, female 33, married with children, since women with the field know that LG SMS, telephone, after a huge fight, LG is indifferent to the women and no ML, previously very positive, not abortion takes good care of women. We said no contact with foreign women, but women found to be three times, men have said they do not know, did not read the message, not seen how will open? how is back? men said that it might back the wrong. get try to fool women. said and women to live well, and no action. Women from the heartbreaking to the heart of the cold, all the way is very difficult, if men were the last part of comfort enlighten No, blame the woman nothing good, in the past to the past (no less than three times that phrase male). Women are now free to go home, then home to the men to sleep watching TV dinner, other times to the office. women feeling depressed, sometimes angry children, inner guilt, there is her mother at home, kicked the inconvenience, fear of angry old people will get sick, can not speak for the parents of poor health, very depressed.
depressed what? divorce since you do not want to forget his derailment suspect, take the initiative a good relationship with him now and his Cold War, he was not more time to engage the other woman? I see you can not let go of him, or even care about his mother ah gas? both so warm to the idea that he, draw him.
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12, female 27, three o'clock in research different colleges know the person with the school, city after graduation to work together naturally, met with both parents. Although the impression of him is not my parents very good, but given my choice, the family did much against it. when he was very good to me, is that people are introverts, and his mother was accustomed to him. I graduated almost two years, just work to know that if I married him require a wedding, because we have this custom here. Now I live in his house, which from my past work, do not rent, we are gonna get married to the stage, also wedding photos, and not pull permits. recently discovered strange strange, for I always absent-minded, always to ask only answer. pressed him what happened, he said he loved me, but did not want to do the wedding, feeling the pressure.
I know that is not money, finally convinced him to choose the day did not find the hotel, because basically all that time by other man-out. This time he did not want to do, because he did not mind the pressure he has been overcome. I do not know how to talk to their parents , both parents to the wedding when we do it, made me melancholy miserable. confused, you have even pressure on men to do the wedding, the future will have to play what, if there is anything beyond, I do not have to carry ah? And do not say early, delayed so long to tell me the pressure, a complete waste of my time Well, how can I do it?
girl ah, his pressure on specific points of what you really know? is not Another love, do not want to continue the marriage out? now that you did not just licensing of the wedding, if we separated and waiting for him outside of his people who are better than a grand wedding to a divorce right after the grand ah. If that man does not have an affair, the formality of the wedding is a headache, you let him get sore, and now plenty of wedding services company, what help you carry out all physical exertion.
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13, at home and a daughter 18 months Who will take care of her now is to worry, there are several ways, very difficult:
A former grandparents to see the condition that must be brought back home. I do not want to be one of its separate, and the second is the grandfather Grandma spoil, and now some arrogant character (because three or four months to bring back, bring it directly to 13 months), if it continues to bring back home, I do not know what will happen after the character, finally came a number of tuning.
B take care of the baby's grandparents, parents said that family can be too much, get away.
C with my resignation, wages in addition to maintaining her husband outside the home, is running low, this year's economic crisis,Bailey UGG boots, how to do if he lost his job? < br> D please nanny. can not find the right person familiar to domestic companies please, do not be afraid of responsibility, fear of their children taken away by two; if one person this year, the unemployment, the family can not afford a.
E send nursery, near the confiscation of such a small baby's nursery or kindergarten, at least until the age of two, is still half a year.
A program implementation to six months, and then for E program.
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14, I was a mind Special narrow man, others a little wrong I can rest assured, it's always a bit Grievance must be reported, this study of my life had a significant impact. shun, have you seen this man? I just early 20s, what solution do ?
narrow-minded people are still a lot to see, regardless of gender. magnanimity is our quality, can not and our temperament, but also on and the mood, experience, and understanding related. you only 20, still young, plenty of opportunity to experience lived, later you will know, not to the degree that is sometimes difficult for themselves.
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15, I was 86, younger than me have a 5-year-old sister, is my real mother students. I was 10 years old, married father and mother now, she 18 years old than me, she can not have children, have treated me better, for some reason can recent years, more and more excessive, in my and Dad off against, and in front of me and my sister is also a good father, my father gave a face to go, fierce enough to! I really can not stand her artificial manner, and her fight, her father in front of the Poor equipment, lie said bad things about me, let my father taught me.
I am very grateful she brought me, so I have a mother, even if not for me! really good so I told her, each festival to buy gifts for her, each time have brought out something for her to eat, but now I saw her come to the fire, her everywhere provocative, sarcastic, does she not understand what you prosperity it? I think I'm going to endure can not, except no one can understand my sister, my father did not know anything, do not believe that she is not good for us. I am a bad attitude adjustment, because I really could not stand, nor bear to see her do this to my sister ! Shun sister, I do if faced with?
work for the early self-reliance, and then came out with his sister, sisters, two had each other now. but do not forget your sister and your father's life to be incidental.
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16, Female 32LG34. intimate knowledge of 4 years of marriage, education of a child over 2 years old. in-laws in rural areas, who now came to live with Bangdai children. They are in the organs. Men are more entertaining, it seems able to grasp , not derailed. life without a single taste. hi, TV, internet, love, lazy, weak performance. most important thing is he does not considerate female, introverted and irritable, and female non-redundant, then the female parents in the field not too much concern. He loves children but does not trust women, at every turn to take care of things, regardless of where the child fell yell stare and do not coax women happy, so that women feel at home no status. women regularly work seriously, good management, the size of things to worry about at home, but also control money and goods, but the men that have to be constrained.
problem is that men are too loose, the family started looking for something often forgetful, too busy at home. dawdle dignitaries such as work, home serve food that is self-serving, ignoring the father and mother. Female children fed the first meal, eat, food is running low. male chores, women also take care of personal matters. To this end, female to male long-winded ramble, but also loud argument, her in-laws could not understand, women do not want to live long. Therefore, for the end of the child (3 years old) for admission, in-laws to leave. At the same time, beating due to male bear responsibility. to ask Soon: The total sense of the two were personality clashes, female-sensitive demanding pursuit of perfection, lazy men with low emotional intelligence, it is difficult to communicate, it seems that love is not up, not worry about long-term, but there are no major conflicts. Please get along with the model of two female how to improve? how can we let M understand their responsibility to do?
Chinese marriage, Chinese men and women, your home are available. going good, let her in-laws leave no one dry shelter home for him, he must think he is the head of the household father a child, how due diligence was needed. front of you to boil it. men do not grow in pet first father and mother, the second is a woman used, and three are born selfish. your home that the three men are available. What do you all tubes, not enough for him that everything, that everything you do not get him to pipe ah?
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17, female 21, ready to rise the college, childhood friends A friend with a 5-year, looks family education is better than her boyfriend. boyfriend junior high school education, age, early death of his father, the mother married again, for family reasons early, very caring, who is now her boyfriend help solve the problem by relatives working in public institutions. female tutor is very strict, simply kept in purdah parents love, adding the limitless hopes, has been strongly opposed to female intercourse with her boyfriend, and entrance losses attributed to men and women struggling against invalid! recently met a family is a very gifted woman boy S, smaller than the 3-year-old female, S parent pole appreciated by women, now S is about to leave the country (China has not yet graduated from high school), would like to contact with the woman.
woman fancies? in mind (always felt that the other poor) to love (to love one another) to reason (around friends are encouraging encouragement), her boyfriend does not fit all A, terrorism could not find more than he loves himself or his loved ones more; the other hand, do not want to hurt the mother's heart too, but also worried about the future will not regret it? another: Female There is a feeling close to the 38-year-old aunt, the early years but also with a large disparity between the various aspects of the conditions (strong men and weak women) and boyfriend fell in love ten years, multi-stop family break up. aunt were eventually married twice failed. aunt and then the case of ex-boyfriend, and women are very similar situation with her boyfriend, a warning for women, will be brought Aunt examine their feelings.
even if you continue to develop and present her boyfriend, both of them only 21, after a few years of marriage things now a good time being dragged, so why have to see the results stand. As a small family-year-old special good S, it is a kid actor, his future still do not know where it, you do not miss him out.
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18,08 years before Mid-Autumn Festival, the University squad by QQ send me a blessing, very funny, very happy after watching, the layout of the card as a newspaper, write the name on the other side, the newspapers all his news , are such as: Heaven and Earth Award for the best romantic partners, a woman admired the world, the British Princess admiration so long, and handsome with a beautiful sexy figure. So I forward it to several friends, including a friend of my her husband's friend, age forty, ten years older than we are about our industry we are capable, have developed several different companies. for a thousand miles apart, rarely meet, he often would send some message to us to maintain good relationship, the same as the Big Brother concern us, we also have great respect for him, serious and polite Relations Department. but more funny greeting cards, hair done I think is very inappropriate, I do not sedate the suspect, was so embarrassed, had been confiscated after the to his message, his message was received until the New Year. Will need to call along to explain it? need to tell the husband? likes having thought so embarrassed.
funny forward messages and forwarding messages, is got settled only did the act, after it try to control their impulses. that do not have to explain things, when do not got. he will, if asked, you explain, do not ask, that people leave you face, we also install ignorant it.
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19, is the kind of man I Need garbage, vagrants, not disabled can not support themselves, alcoholic life, drink to make trouble. I am fed up, and his son moved out two years , has been indicted, bent, and his divorce. I am a civil servant, 40-year-old outsider, here unaccompanied, his hometown is developing, is the one hundred counties, would like to transfer it back. just love are divorced, a deputy bureau, a child with him. We are not for each other away from the marriage, now he can go back to my tune. may be the son did not want to go home with me, he had in junior high school, want to live with his grandparents. They can still conditions, I do not know the time of divorce Whether fighting for custody of the child? love that I did not take his son, leaving a child I can not seem to go back and have no meaning, old, who cares about me? man I used to frighten me, if I live to go a divorce from Shandong, now appears to be paper tigers, I do not know, or should not go back?
son has big, let him ponder, it is all with the grandparents, or go with you. Whatever his choice, are to respect, and tell him you have to go his own way, and if he refused to go with you, hope he will want you, to notify you first.
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20, I was 22, with boy friend a year and a half, I took him a few days ago met with parents, relatives, relatives did not say anything face to face, showing enthusiasm, but call me the next day did not like him. said he was not long, tall, short , and a big scar on his neck, the family is not how good the conditions. do not like. In fact, my mother did not like before, and now after my persuasion, promised to give me time to get along with my father to remain neutral and does not support also no objection, because he was afraid I will not blame him. Now, I worried that he did not know, I did not tell him. I was reluctant to give up, pay too much for his feelings to each other has gone through many ups and downs, and now finally together a, for both of them cried.
what point my sister asked me if I like him, I dunno, just like that feeling, like a natural with him, no cover, no pretend. He also love me love me, but sometimes a bit careless. He met my parents, like me, but do not know my parents think of him, I thought I would marry him, my parents like him. This I feel very guilty that his parents to me. In fact, I am not afraid of suffering for love, I am thinking of is to allow time to gradually change all that, I hope I can try to earn money with him, with action to tell my parents, He can give me happiness. but I am a little afraid, I'm afraid I stubbornly insist that the end is just a mistake.
looking for men and gambling licenses are the same, a good bet to a bon voyage; bet the wrong card, life are ups and downs, but also a rare means. If you love him, to gamble, this is life, let it go. after the thing to worry about later.
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21, I divorced 2 years, he Outside there is a woman, I strongly from. I'm 60 years who is traditional. to this day I still can not believe he derailed and we really away from. but everything obviously took place. I'm from Sichuan, the earthquake when I was 5.12 see him, should the phrase divorced) he was not even his mother no matter what. my heart has not let go. We are husband and wife of 20 years. Your Weapon I'm flattered, my heart a lot about light and spacious, so I know a lot I do not understand the reason is unknown. I want to thank God I know you. You like to walk to the underworld, who lit a beacon.
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